There’s a quote that floats around the self-help space: “The time is going to pass anyway, so you might as well spend it creating the life you want.” It’s one of those simple, no-nonsense truths that hits home because it’s…well, undeniable. Whether you’re actively designing your future or letting life happen to you, time keeps moving forward.
So, the question becomes: What are you doing with the time you’ve got?
The Myth of “Someday”
How many of us have said, “Someday, I’ll start that business,” or, “When the timing is right, I’ll finally focus on my health”? Too often, we think that life will give us the perfect set of circumstances, as if one day the stars will align, and we’ll magically have the time, energy, or resources to finally go after what we want.
But the truth is, there is no perfect time. Life doesn’t pause for us to get our act together. The more we wait for “someday,” the more likely it is that we’ll look back years from now, wondering why we didn’t take action when we had the chance.
Taking Ownership of Your Future
The real shift happens when you start to take ownership over your time and your choices. Designing your life is not about having a perfect plan or knowing all the answers. It’s about recognizing that the time is going to pass whether you’re intentional about it or not.
So, why not take charge and create a life that aligns with your values, desires, and dreams?
The beauty of this mindset shift is that it empowers you to make decisions now that your future self will thank you for. It doesn’t matter where you are in life—whether you’re looking to make big career moves, prioritize your health, or nurture your relationships—intentional action is what makes the difference.
Small, Consistent Steps Lead to Big Changes
Designing the life you want doesn’t have to mean making drastic changes overnight. Often, it’s the small, consistent actions that have the most profound impact. What can you do today that will move you closer to the future you envision?
- Want to start a business? Begin by carving out 30 minutes each day to work on your idea.
- Looking to prioritize your well-being? Commit to a daily walk, even if it’s just around the block.
- Hoping to nurture your relationships? Set aside time to connect with loved ones regularly, even if it’s just a quick call or text.
These small actions, compounded over time, will lead to major transformations.
It’s Your Life—Design It On Your Terms
One of the most freeing realizations is that you don’t have to live your life according to anyone else’s blueprint. The traditional path—school, job, house, family—doesn’t have to be your path if it doesn’t align with what you truly want. You get to decide what your life looks like.
Maybe your dream is to travel the world. Maybe it’s to build a business that allows you more freedom. Or maybe it’s to lead a quiet, peaceful life focused on your health and personal fulfillment. Whatever your vision is, own it. Embrace it. And most importantly, start taking steps to make it a reality.
The time is going to pass either way—make sure it’s moving you in the direction of your dreams.
Take the First Step Toward Designing Your Future
If you’re ready to start designing the life you’ve always wanted, the FutureU: Self-Care Summit is the perfect opportunity to begin. This one-day immersive event is designed to help you reset, recharge, and take control of your future with clarity and confidence.
Through exclusive workshops and guided experiences, you’ll gain practical tools to take charge of your time, energy, and goals—so that you can start living intentionally, starting now.
Join us on January 7, 2025, at the University Club of Chicago, and invest in the future you’ve always dreamed of.